Just for being a shy-person doesn't mean your life has it's limit.
Don't think that shyness is a barrier or obstacles blocking your way to success. In fact, eventhough being shy, you must have that determination to succeed.
Many shy people think that shyness is a hindrance in everything that life has to offer. They're wrong when they think this way. This is a negative-side of thinking. When you think that way..you WILL be that way.
As the famous quote says "A quitter never wins and the winner never quits" is true actually.
Some successful individuals started from a shy person to become super-success in later life. These people doesn't let shyness overcome their determination to succeed in any circumstances.
They won't allow any damn thing to stop them from achieving their goals.
People who had successfully conquered their shyness always ended up winners. For them, shyness was no big deal because they knew that they can overcome it and win.
Those who ended being shy forever are worthless people if they do nothing about their shyness and forever hid in the closet.
Better speakers begin their lives from being poor talkers. From a stuttered and nervous speakers, they were able to become sought after speakers in any events.
Successful entrepreneurs cannot be successful if they just allow shyness killed their way to success.Entrepreneurs must conquer their shyness in dealing with people or prospects, otherwise they will end up being poor-achievers in life.
I once had a friend who was a complete package of shyness. He was so shy as a young boy that he won't dare looked at people when speaking in front of them. He blushed and stuttered when he tried to utter something out of his mouth. He became a loner.
After a few years, I managed to meet him again. This time at a seminar I was attending. I couldn't believed my eyes when I saw him standing there on stage without difficulties. No shyness. Nothing.
Right after the speech, I came over to meet him. He was happy to see me. I asked him the secrets that changed him. He told me something simple. Just DO it. If you have the confidence,you can do it.
So..that magic words struck me like lightning. It awakened me right there. I realized that what he said was true.
So...have plenty of self-confidence. Shyness can be overcome and conquered. It's not a disease.
Monday, January 10, 2011
From Shy to Success
Just for being shy doesn't mean your life is a limit.
Don't think that shyness is a barrier or obstacles blocking your way to success. In fact by being shy, you have that determination to succeed.
Many shy people think that shyness is a hindrance in everything that life has to offer. They're wrong when they think this way. It's like being conquered
before you begin to fight.
A fast failure is a fast road to despair and disapoinment.
Some succesful individuals started from being a shy person to become a super-success in later life. These people does'nt let shyness overcome their
determination to become succesful. They won't allow any damn thing to stop them from achieving their goals.
People who conquer shyness always ended up winners. For them, shyness was no big deal because they knew that shyness is not any disease and can be cured no
matter how you did it.
Those who ended being shy forever are worthless creatures who always think negatively. Their way of thinking was always determined by their own
weaknesses.They let shyness steer their lives because the spirit of determination disappeared by the time they think differently about themselves.
Better speakers began their lives from being poor talkers. They started as a shy and reserved individual. Once they realised that shyness is a difficult
pain to endure, they will find ways and means to end it forever.
Succesful entrepreneurs cannot be succesful if they just allow shyness in meeting people killed their way to success.Their sheer guts and determination
completely eradicate that.
I once knew a friend who was a complete package of shyness. He was so shy as a young boy that he blushed whenever he spoke and couldn't even looked people in
the eye. He stammered and stuttered when he tried to utter something out of his mouth. He became a loner since then.
After a few years, I managed to meet him again. This time at a seminar I was attending. I couldn't believed my eyes when I saw him standing there on stage
speaking without any sign of shyness on him. I was in awe. I still couldn't believe it was him there speaking to hundreds of people with much accolades.
I met him behind the stage and asked him what had he done to become someone different from what I knew before.He just smiled and said"if you say the
same..you stay the same..."
So..that magic words struck me like lightning. It awakened me right there. I realised that what he said was true. I was a slightly shy man at that time. I
began to think that if my once-shy friend can be what he is today, so why shouldn't I then?
I'm a practising entrepreneur now. At least I can speak without hesitancy with my prospects. To be an entrepreneur you have to have that confidence in
speech, otherwise you won't sell anything and you will end up being a shy and worthless entrepreneur sitting at one corner brooding what life is.
It's you who must change. Life won't change you unless you make the changes yourselves. You have to start something. A car won't move if you don't start the
engine.
That's nothing wrong being a shy person but don't ever let shyness create your failure. Do something about it. You can.
Don't think that shyness is a barrier or obstacles blocking your way to success. In fact by being shy, you have that determination to succeed.
Many shy people think that shyness is a hindrance in everything that life has to offer. They're wrong when they think this way. It's like being conquered
before you begin to fight.
A fast failure is a fast road to despair and disapoinment.
Some succesful individuals started from being a shy person to become a super-success in later life. These people does'nt let shyness overcome their
determination to become succesful. They won't allow any damn thing to stop them from achieving their goals.
People who conquer shyness always ended up winners. For them, shyness was no big deal because they knew that shyness is not any disease and can be cured no
matter how you did it.
Those who ended being shy forever are worthless creatures who always think negatively. Their way of thinking was always determined by their own
weaknesses.They let shyness steer their lives because the spirit of determination disappeared by the time they think differently about themselves.
Better speakers began their lives from being poor talkers. They started as a shy and reserved individual. Once they realised that shyness is a difficult
pain to endure, they will find ways and means to end it forever.
Succesful entrepreneurs cannot be succesful if they just allow shyness in meeting people killed their way to success.Their sheer guts and determination
completely eradicate that.
I once knew a friend who was a complete package of shyness. He was so shy as a young boy that he blushed whenever he spoke and couldn't even looked people in
the eye. He stammered and stuttered when he tried to utter something out of his mouth. He became a loner since then.
After a few years, I managed to meet him again. This time at a seminar I was attending. I couldn't believed my eyes when I saw him standing there on stage
speaking without any sign of shyness on him. I was in awe. I still couldn't believe it was him there speaking to hundreds of people with much accolades.
I met him behind the stage and asked him what had he done to become someone different from what I knew before.He just smiled and said"if you say the
same..you stay the same..."
So..that magic words struck me like lightning. It awakened me right there. I realised that what he said was true. I was a slightly shy man at that time. I
began to think that if my once-shy friend can be what he is today, so why shouldn't I then?
I'm a practising entrepreneur now. At least I can speak without hesitancy with my prospects. To be an entrepreneur you have to have that confidence in
speech, otherwise you won't sell anything and you will end up being a shy and worthless entrepreneur sitting at one corner brooding what life is.
It's you who must change. Life won't change you unless you make the changes yourselves. You have to start something. A car won't move if you don't start the
engine.
That's nothing wrong being a shy person but don't ever let shyness create your failure. Do something about it. You can.
The LOA bug bit me
LOA or commonly called Law of Attraction had been the IN thing right now.
People had been talking about it. Several books were written to describe the concepts of LOA and how it happens.
First and foremost, it's how your thoughts can create reality either spontaneously or subconsciously.
I was into it accidentally and without even knowing that it had to do with the law of attraction until I read few books and articles regarding it.
I was bitten by the LOA bug after some incidents happened when I least expect it, and honestly discovered the way law of attraction showed itself in your life.
I remembered one incident when I went out shopping with my wife. Actually I wanted to buy a newspaper which I usually bought when I passed through that area but as I was busy with other things, I had forgotten about that paper. But my mind kept on focusing on that paper that I missed buying. I really wanted to have that paper. It's my favorite paper.
As I was walking towards a particular area, my eyes saw THAT newspaper lying at a spot and probably left by someone who had forgotten it or maybe had discard it there after reading.
Quickly I walked towards it and happily folded it before someone noticed what I just did.
I was happy like hell because what I wanted happened when you concentrate on what you want. You ATTRACT that situation.
That's the first LOA experience that happened to me. I was attracted to LOA right after that and wanted to learn more about it.
The next thing that happened REALLY made me believed LOA tremendously.
At that time the book called THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne was HOT and the DVD was well-received by people all over the world.
I was curious about the book and desperately wanted to buy it.
Unfortunately the book was hard to find at my place and many of the bookstores that I visited told me the book was a sell-out and ran out quite fast.
I felt frustrated and kept on insisting that I MUST get that the book no matter how.
So after a few days my mind was still focusing on the book but at the meantime I had bought other LOA books just to ease my mind. But the focus was still on that book again.
A week later, my friend called to invite me to a certain free seminar in regards to online or e-commerce marketing or rather network-marketing.
At first I decline the offer and after some cool persuasion I decided to attend and listen to what the speakers had to say about the networking business. I had been with a few MLM business but luck was not on my side and I quit after several months due to zero result on my part. That happened because I had not been properly guide by the so-called MENTORS.
As I arrived at the seminar, I saw a large crowd outside the seminar-hall but I couldn't see my friend so I went towards a booth which sells all kinds of health-products and mags as well as some DVDs by the online entrepreneurs in this seminar.
As I browsed through the items, suddenly my eyes were directed towards a corner where they stacked all the DVDs. I could'nt believed what I saw.
There it was The book and DVD of The Secret were staring at me. Without much hesitation I gleefully grabbed them before someone did. I was so happy and quickly paid for those things.I felt like a small kid who had just bought a toy.
Anyway I got them cheap as those who came to the seminar were given discounted prices on any items that you buy.
So there you are. LOA is a tremendous experience when you had encountered it. Furthermore it can be a wonderful ASSET to you if you know how to make use of law of attraction to gain many things in life.
Right now I'm still learning more about the law of attraction because I believed that if you use it wisely and with proper guidance, it can do wonderful things for you, not like magic but scientifically-magic by using the power of the MIND.
People had been talking about it. Several books were written to describe the concepts of LOA and how it happens.
First and foremost, it's how your thoughts can create reality either spontaneously or subconsciously.
I was into it accidentally and without even knowing that it had to do with the law of attraction until I read few books and articles regarding it.
I was bitten by the LOA bug after some incidents happened when I least expect it, and honestly discovered the way law of attraction showed itself in your life.
I remembered one incident when I went out shopping with my wife. Actually I wanted to buy a newspaper which I usually bought when I passed through that area but as I was busy with other things, I had forgotten about that paper. But my mind kept on focusing on that paper that I missed buying. I really wanted to have that paper. It's my favorite paper.
As I was walking towards a particular area, my eyes saw THAT newspaper lying at a spot and probably left by someone who had forgotten it or maybe had discard it there after reading.
Quickly I walked towards it and happily folded it before someone noticed what I just did.
I was happy like hell because what I wanted happened when you concentrate on what you want. You ATTRACT that situation.
That's the first LOA experience that happened to me. I was attracted to LOA right after that and wanted to learn more about it.
The next thing that happened REALLY made me believed LOA tremendously.
At that time the book called THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne was HOT and the DVD was well-received by people all over the world.
I was curious about the book and desperately wanted to buy it.
Unfortunately the book was hard to find at my place and many of the bookstores that I visited told me the book was a sell-out and ran out quite fast.
I felt frustrated and kept on insisting that I MUST get that the book no matter how.
So after a few days my mind was still focusing on the book but at the meantime I had bought other LOA books just to ease my mind. But the focus was still on that book again.
A week later, my friend called to invite me to a certain free seminar in regards to online or e-commerce marketing or rather network-marketing.
At first I decline the offer and after some cool persuasion I decided to attend and listen to what the speakers had to say about the networking business. I had been with a few MLM business but luck was not on my side and I quit after several months due to zero result on my part. That happened because I had not been properly guide by the so-called MENTORS.
As I arrived at the seminar, I saw a large crowd outside the seminar-hall but I couldn't see my friend so I went towards a booth which sells all kinds of health-products and mags as well as some DVDs by the online entrepreneurs in this seminar.
As I browsed through the items, suddenly my eyes were directed towards a corner where they stacked all the DVDs. I could'nt believed what I saw.
There it was The book and DVD of The Secret were staring at me. Without much hesitation I gleefully grabbed them before someone did. I was so happy and quickly paid for those things.I felt like a small kid who had just bought a toy.
Anyway I got them cheap as those who came to the seminar were given discounted prices on any items that you buy.
So there you are. LOA is a tremendous experience when you had encountered it. Furthermore it can be a wonderful ASSET to you if you know how to make use of law of attraction to gain many things in life.
Right now I'm still learning more about the law of attraction because I believed that if you use it wisely and with proper guidance, it can do wonderful things for you, not like magic but scientifically-magic by using the power of the MIND.
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