Too shy and being real
Being shy is one thing, but being TOO shy is another. It sucks.
I was once so shy, it seems like a burden to carry around all the time. It's too hurting to bear.
So I looked at myself in the mirror and started thinking of doing something about this shyness in me.
All this while, I lived in isolation. Alone. No friends to talk to. In fact I was like an alien from other planet.
Whenever I was in a crowded area, I kept thinking that everyone were looking at me and wanted to eat me.I felt that everything I did were wrong. I felt awkward.I quickly left the crowd. And that's it for some years.
I began to read books on shyness. I attended classes on self-confidence. I went to several talks. I bought many CDs on positive thinking. In fact I did everything I could to get rid of my shyness.
But...nothing changed. I was despaired and frustrated. I sat down in silence.
I still won't give-up though. I knew I could do something to myself. Deep inside I had that feeling that I could do it.
Slowly I began to realize that when you want to achieve something you must tell yourself that you can do it. No books or seminars or talks or anything can change you. You yourself had to change. YOU had to change YOU.
I began to walk confidently and try not to think that I'm shy. I smiled at people when I met them. It looked silly but it really helped me. I felt more brave.
I then tried conversing with people. At first it's not easy but when I pushed myself all out..I can talk confidently on any subjects. I gained many friends from there.
I joined many social clubs and became a member of an MLM bussiness. From there I met so many kinds of people and able to handle anything which I could not have done years ago.
So..you can achieve anything if you truly belive in yourselves. Dont' be shy and just WALK TALL.
But...nothing changed. I was despaired and frustrated. I sat down in silence.
I still won't give-up though. I knew I could do something to myself. Deep inside I had that feeling that I could do it.
Slowly I began to realize that when you want to achieve something you must tell yourself that you can do it. No books or seminars or talks or anything can change you. You yourself had to change. YOU had to change YOU.
I began to walk confidently and try not to think that I'm shy. I smiled at people when I met them. It looked silly but it really helped me. I felt more brave.
I then tried conversing with people. At first it's not easy but when I pushed myself all out..I can talk confidently on any subjects. I gained many friends from there.
I joined many social clubs and became a member of an MLM bussiness. From there I met so many kinds of people and able to handle anything which I could not have done years ago.
So..you can achieve anything if you truly belive in yourselves. Dont' be shy and just WALK TALL.
