Writing different now...

Well...I think  I  had  to  write  my  blog  in  a  different  way  now.  Not  like  before,  blabbering  emptily  without  readers  to  read  or  follow  your  blog.  Now  I  understand  why  some  blogs  were  powerful  while  some  others  were  just....well....blogs...
To  find  people  to  read  your  blog  with  interesting  articles  is  one  thing  and  to  get  followers  to  your  blog  is  another.  It's  not  that  easy. I  had  tried  to  write   as  many  articles  as  I  could  just  to  fill  my  blog,  but,  as  I  checked  daily,  there  were  no  readers  or  even  comments  from  anyone.  I  don't  understand  why.  Well  maybe,  I'm  not  that  good  as  a  writer  or  maybe  I  wrote  uninteresting  articles.  Or  maybe  my  blog/s  were  not  even  recognised  by any  SEO's. Anyways  I  had  tried,  but  as  I  believed  in  dreams,  I  believed  that  one  day,  someone  will  bound  to  follow  my  blog  and  be  a  faithful  reader.
But...first...I had  to  make  my  blog   interesting  by writing  good  articles.  Normally,  I  will  write  my  own  articles  and  the  subjects  I  had  written  were  not  based  on  one  thing  that  I  was  good  at.  I  always  write  articles  on  any  subjects. 
Like  at  HubPages...I  used  to  write  articles  on  shyness  or  how  to  overcome  your  shyness,  happy  marriage,  avoiding  divorce  and  self-motivation  articles  based  on  the  concepts  of  the  Law  of  Attraction  which  at  that  time  was  gaining  all  time-high  due  to  the  emergence  of  a  book  called  The Secret  written  by  Rhonda  Byrnes. 
My  thinking  at  that  time  was  to  get  on  the  platform  because  many  books  were  written  after  The  Secret  was  made  known.  I  try  to  get  some  exposure  on  the  subject  of  Law  of  Attraction  by  giving  some  highlights  due  to  my  experiences  with  LOA  even  before  it  was  well-known  and  not  even  realized  that  what  I  had  experienced  were  the  works  of  LOA  in  that  matter.  So  I  wrote.  Then  no  comments.  Why?..maybe  nobody  read  it  or  maybe  most  do  not  understand  what  is  LOA  anyway.  My  mistake  in  writing  that  article  was  that  I  did  not  expose  what  is  LOA  actually.  When  people  don't  understand  something,  they  let  it  pass.
Yeah...maybe  that's  the  reason  why  I  gained  no  readers  or  followers  until  this  time.
So  I  need to  do  something now. What?
Exposure  perhaps...how?...register  my  blogs  at  Yahoo,  Firefox  or  google  search-engines.  I  had  done  that.
Many  ads  were  added  in  my  blogs..but  when  I  checked  for  any  payments  due  to  me.  There  were  none  as  I  was  not  qualified  to  get  any  payment  or cash  when  they  placed  ads  on  my  blogs.  Free  ride  Okay.
They  gained  I  pained. Or  maybe  I  had  to  find  out  the  reasons  why  I  was  not  paid  for  the  many  ads  placed  on  my  blogs.

I will try  again.  Perhaps  I  will get  some  cash  this  time.

Do it your way..

Well friends..it's such a long time  that I did not update this blog. To say I'm quite busy this few weeks is not true. Sometimes laziness crept in without you realizing it. But perhaps I'm not that lazy as you may think.....
Actually..there are endless stories to tell..but sometimes I tend to forget as I was lazy enough to carry any notebook to jot down anything.....
Next time I will remember to always carry a notebook around in  case  there are some stories or happenings to jot down and forward to my blog.
It's quite  fast  that  the  school holidays are here again..how  time  flies....year end is coming though..
and then it's the same year end resolutions again...but I don't believe in making any resolutions as I've always failed to do so.
Anyway..I'm still working in a job that I hate but financially..it also helps me to survive before I really wanted to be independent and not ever to work with anyone again...no more salaried job...making someone RICH by sucking your blood away and with all  those office-politics to bear with.....it get me sick thinking of it....
Well...life has to go on.....but one day I know that I will be independent and do my own thing.
Who knows perhaps one day I may get paid by blogging..hehe..dream on...
Life will be beautiful when you  gain something by doing what you love most. I love to write and draw cartoons and comics. Only time will tell of when I will succeed. But I still believe in dreams and always think of positive things to come my way.
In the meantime...get on with life and enjoy what I'm doing now even though I still hate what I'm doing right now. Patience pays as they say.

There is still a rainbow after the rain. I believe that the meadow of hope is beyond the horizon where I can get to do things my own way....

Are you ALONE?

Some people thought being lonely is being helpless, left alone, discarded, uncared-for and without companion. They thought that being lonely means nobody cares about you and you're left alone to live your life or to lick your own wounds.
We tend to forget that GOD is always on our side. God is always looking at us and love to hear our lamenting and grieving to HIM. But how many of us realised that GOD is always be with us?
We always thought that being lonely is being forgotten and has to go through life alone and bear all the burden life has to offer.
Some people killed their loneliness by going the bad-road. They get involved in drugs, promiscuity and other self-indulgence activities which gave more harm than good. They killed their loneliness by ruining their dignity, honour and self-respect. But still, loneliness never left them.
Spiritually, their soul needs more than this. You have to find your path to peace, calm and happiness even though by being alone.
Actually, you can find your SAVIOUR in your loneliness. But HOW?
Every religion in this world believe in the spirituality of life. Your soul will survive if it knows where to find solace. GOD is the ONE and ONLY solace and you had to find your way through that lonely-road to HIM.
Talk to God. Converse with Him. He will listen to his slaves and KNOWS the conditions of his slaves. The only thing is for the slaves to SAY it, CRY it OUT to Him and definitely , HE will listen.
Find the TRUE path to God.
Nowadays, many people went to visit Soothsayers, fortune-tellers, paranormal practisioners, and all kinds of GURUS to get rid of life's loneliness and hope to achieve something in order to forget about the calamities of life.
The Holy-men of old went inside caves and secluded places so that they can have some times with their CREATOR. These Holy-people would never tell, lamented or cry their hearts out to people because they knew that people themselves need their solace with God.

So..don't feel lonely. Do the RIGHT thing. Go to God and speak to Him. Tell all your troubles and even cry infront of Him. Surely God will LISTEN.

My shyness helped me..

I was  shy  once. I'm still shy though. But not as worst as before. At least I can control it. But talking about being shy, it was me years ago.
I was a shy-boy. So shy that I was like a tortoise. Will rear-up my head when no one's around and do the disappearing-act when someone appears. But that was before.
You have to control your shyness. It's  not WRONG being shy but don't let shyness freezed your life that you can't make a damn move because of it. Don't be despaired because shyness engulfed you.  You have to fight back. Contain that feeling of shyness. I did. Control it before it control you. That's what I successfully did in order to continue with life.
Enjoy life even though you're shy. Don't let shyness makes you feel guilty of not enjoying life. Make shyness FUN to live with.
How did I survive with shyness?
Plenty of ways but I only give you some basic ways to overcome or enjoy being a shy-person.
Firstly...find out WHAT makes you so shy?
WHY are you shy and HOW did you become shy?
How and WHEN to enjoy being shy?
As I've said, I enjoy life whilst also being a shy-person. What's the meaning of that?
Naturally a shy-person won't enjoy anything right? Right because when you're being shy your movements becomes freezed and limited. You're full of  nervous sweats. You can't meet people. It makes you sick.
But..how did I enjoy that?..Well..I think in a POSITIVE way.  I put aside all NEGATIVE feelings. If I'm positive and think positively, I got my strength from there. I know I'm shy but I know I can move on with life. My shyness won't let me down if I tell it so.
So..if you feel shy about doing anything..just tell yourself that you have to do it..tell your shyness to help you move on with it. Tell your shyness that you have to do it or you go BUST. I'm sure you will feel differently and suddenly  your energy surged to a new heights where you automatically forget that you're shy and do what you wanted to do. Try it. It worked because I did it and so has some of my friends who were also shy in many ways.
At first they were skeptical but after trying it forcefully, they managed to successfully forgotten that they were shy and get on with it.
You can forget about being shy if you don't think that you're shy. Shyness comes when you invited it to come to you. It is welcome BUT you have to tell it to follow what you want it to do and not the other way around. Tell shyness that you're the master of you and it is to reside in you QUIETLY and not to disturb your every movements.

Enjoy being shy but at the same time you can enjoy what you want to do while it lingers around you.

Shy to Success

Just for being a shy-person doesn't mean your life has it's  limit.
Don't think that shyness is a barrier or obstacles blocking your way to success. In fact, eventhough being shy, you must have that determination to succeed.
Many shy people think that shyness is a hindrance in everything that life has to offer. They're wrong when they think this way. This is a negative-side of thinking. When you think that way..you WILL be that way.
As the famous quote says "A quitter never wins and the winner never quits" is true actually.
Some successful individuals started from a shy person to become  super-success in later life. These people doesn't let shyness overcome their determination to succeed in any circumstances.
They won't allow any damn thing to stop them from achieving their goals.
People who had successfully conquered their shyness always ended up winners. For them, shyness was no big deal because they knew that they can overcome it and win.
Those who ended being shy forever are worthless people if they do nothing about their shyness and forever hid in the closet.
Better speakers begin their lives from being poor talkers. From a stuttered and nervous speakers, they were able to become sought after speakers in any events.
Successful entrepreneurs cannot be successful if they just allow shyness killed their way to success.Entrepreneurs must conquer their shyness in dealing with people or prospects, otherwise they will end up being poor-achievers in life.
I once had a friend who was a complete package of shyness. He was so shy as a young boy that he won't dare looked at people when speaking in front of them. He blushed and stuttered when he tried to utter something out of his mouth. He became a loner.
After a few years, I managed to meet him again. This time at a seminar I was attending. I couldn't believed my eyes when I saw him standing there on stage without difficulties. No shyness. Nothing.
Right after the speech, I came over to meet him. He was happy to see me. I asked him the secrets that changed him. He told me something simple. Just DO it. If you have the confidence,you can do it.

So..that magic words struck me like lightning. It awakened me right there. I realized that what he said was true. 
So...have plenty of self-confidence. Shyness can be overcome and conquered. It's not a disease.

From Shy to Success

Just for being shy doesn't mean your life is a limit.
Don't think that shyness is a barrier or obstacles blocking your way to success. In fact by being shy, you have that determination to succeed.
Many shy people think that shyness is a hindrance in everything that life has to offer. They're wrong when they think this way. It's like being conquered
before you begin to fight.
A fast failure is a fast road to despair and disapoinment.
Some succesful individuals started from being a shy person to become a super-success in later life. These people does'nt let shyness overcome their
determination to become succesful. They won't allow any damn thing to stop them from achieving their goals.
People who conquer shyness always ended up winners. For them, shyness was no big deal because they knew that shyness is not any disease and can be cured no
matter how you did it.
Those who ended being shy forever are worthless creatures who always think negatively. Their way of thinking was always determined by their own
weaknesses.They let shyness steer their lives because the spirit of determination disappeared by the time they think differently about themselves.
Better speakers began their lives from being poor talkers. They started as a shy and reserved individual. Once they realised that shyness is a difficult
pain to endure, they will find ways and means to end it forever.
Succesful entrepreneurs cannot be succesful if they just allow shyness in meeting people killed their way to success.Their sheer guts and determination
completely eradicate that.
I once knew a friend who was a complete package of shyness. He was so shy as a young boy that he blushed whenever he spoke and couldn't even looked people in
the eye. He stammered and stuttered when he tried to utter something out of his mouth. He became a loner since then.
After a few years, I managed to meet him again. This time at a seminar I was attending. I couldn't believed my eyes when I saw him standing there on stage
speaking without any sign of shyness on him. I was in awe. I still couldn't believe it was him there speaking to hundreds of people with much accolades.
I met him behind the stage and asked him what had he done to become someone different from what I knew before.He just smiled and said"if you say the
same..you stay the same..."
So..that magic words struck me like lightning. It awakened me right there. I realised that what he said was true. I was a slightly shy man at that time. I
began to think that if my once-shy friend can be what he is today, so why shouldn't I then?
I'm a practising entrepreneur now. At least I can speak without hesitancy with my prospects. To be an entrepreneur you have to have that confidence in
speech, otherwise you won't sell anything and you will end up being a shy and worthless entrepreneur sitting at one corner brooding what life is.
It's you who must change. Life won't change you unless you make the changes yourselves. You have to start something. A car won't move if you don't start the
engine.
That's nothing wrong being a shy person but don't ever let shyness create your failure. Do something about it. You can.

The LOA bug bit me

LOA or commonly called Law of Attraction had been the IN thing right now.
People had been talking about it. Several books were written to describe the concepts of LOA and how it happens.
First and foremost, it's how your thoughts can create reality either spontaneously or subconsciously.
I was into it accidentally and without even knowing that it had to do with the law of attraction until I read few books and articles regarding it.
I was bitten by the LOA bug after some incidents happened when I least expect it, and honestly discovered the way law of attraction showed itself in your life.
I remembered one incident when I went out shopping with my wife. Actually I wanted to buy a newspaper which I usually bought when I passed through that area but as I was busy with other things, I had forgotten about that paper. But my mind kept on focusing on that paper that I missed buying. I really wanted to have that paper. It's my favorite paper.
As I was walking towards a particular area, my eyes saw THAT newspaper lying at a spot and probably left by someone who had forgotten it or maybe had discard it there after reading.
Quickly I walked towards it and happily folded it before someone noticed what I just did.
I was happy like hell because what I wanted happened when you concentrate on what you want. You ATTRACT that situation.
That's the first LOA experience that happened to me. I was attracted to LOA right after that and wanted to learn more about it.
The next thing that happened REALLY made me believed LOA tremendously.
At that time the book called THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne was HOT and the DVD was well-received by people all over the world.
I was curious about the book and desperately wanted to buy it.
Unfortunately the book was hard to find at my place and many of the bookstores that I visited told me the book was a sell-out and ran out quite fast.
I felt frustrated and kept on insisting that I MUST get that the book no matter how.
So after a few days my mind was still focusing on the book but at the meantime I had bought other LOA books just to ease my mind. But the focus was still on that book again.
A week later, my friend called to invite me to a certain free seminar in regards to online or e-commerce marketing or rather network-marketing.
At first I decline the offer and after some cool persuasion I decided to attend and listen to what the speakers had to say about the networking business. I had been with a few MLM business but luck was not on my side and I quit after several months due to zero result on my part. That happened because I had not been properly guide by the so-called MENTORS.
As I arrived at the seminar, I saw a large crowd outside the seminar-hall but I couldn't see my friend so I went towards a booth which sells all kinds of health-products and mags as well as some DVDs by the online entrepreneurs in this seminar.
As I browsed through the items, suddenly my eyes were directed towards a corner where they stacked all the DVDs. I could'nt believed what I saw.
There it was The book and DVD of The Secret were staring at me. Without much hesitation I gleefully grabbed them before someone did. I was so happy and quickly paid for those things.I felt like a small kid who had just bought a toy.
Anyway I got them cheap as those who came to the seminar were given discounted prices on any items that you buy.
So there you are. LOA is a tremendous experience when you had encountered it. Furthermore it can be a wonderful ASSET to you if you know how to make use of law of attraction to gain many things in life.
Right now I'm still learning more about the law of attraction because I believed that if you use it wisely and with proper guidance, it can do wonderful things for you, not like magic but scientifically-magic by using the power of the MIND.

Build up your high self-esteem

In  order  to  succeed, we have  to  possess  a  positive  mindset. This  is  quite  important  as  it  is  the  main  tool  of  our  success. Without  this  tool (positive  mindset ),  we  will  succumb  to  failure.
Another  important  thing   is  always  to  build  up  our  self-esteem  and  get  rid  of  any  feelings  of  low  self-esteem  from  our  mind.  Build  up  that  high  self-esteem  and  automatically  the  low-side  of  us  will  eventually  give-way  to  the  high-side  of  our  thinking.  Which  one  will  win  depends  on  the  individual's  ability  to  choose.
With  high  self-esteem  you  will  be  able  to  take  any  obstacles  with  calm  as  the  mind  is  set  to  achieve  success  no  matter  what  the  outcome  will  be. 
Few  years  ago,  I  was  skeptical  in  many  things.  I  thought  that  nothing  can change  me  and  I  will  have  to  live  my  life  as  it  was,  although  it  was  not  a  pleasant  life  to  beckon  with.

You can KILL your shyness..

Talking  about  shyness  again.
Many  shy-people  find  ways  and  methods  to  conquer  their  shyness.  Some  succeeded  whilst  some  still  struggle  to  end  shyness.
Different  techniques  and  strategies  derived  from  books, hypnotism, courses,  and  classes  were  made  available  to  enable  shy-people  to  belong  to  the  crowd  without  being  left-out,  isolated  or  feel  alienated.
How  people  managed  to  get  over  their  shyness  depends  on  how  they  follow  or  carry  out  the  guidance  which  they  acquired  from  these  sources.
Actually,  being  shy  is  not some  sort  of  a  disease  but  when  it  became  a  habit  it  can  really  make  you  sick.  Sick  of  being  shy  and  living  with  it  everyday  of  your  life  will  make  it  miserable  for  the  sufferers.
Don't  despair  though  as  shyness  can be  KILLED  as  it  had  always  kill  your  fun  out  of  life.
To  me  the  strongest  remedy  to  kill  the  feeling  of  shyness  is  by  having  the  proper  mind-set.  You  have  to  be  able  to  manipulate  your  mind  to  get  rid  of  shyness.  The  mind  has  to  be  control  by  having  positive-thinking  and  proper  visualization  to  having  the  feeling  that  you  CAN  do  it.  You  can  conquer  shyness  and  can  have  fun  in  your  life  if  you  THINK  it  so.  If  the  mind  says  it,  you  can  achieve  it.
The  famous  concept  of  the  law  of  attraction  come  into  the  picture.  Combined  all  these  with  the  power  of  your  subconscious-mind  are  the  ultimate  tools  you  have  to  kill  shyness.  Talk  is  easy  you  may  say  BUT  it  is  truly  so.  I  have  done  it  and  succeed  but  I  have  to  tell  you  that  it  takes  great  guts  and  determination  to  succeed.
Don't  give  up  when  you  feel  uncomfortable  doing  so  because  by  giving  up  you  will  make  shyness  the  master  of  your  destiny  as  it  will  tend  to  control  you  and  feel  miserable  by  accepting  it.
Shyness when left to take its root in your veins will become hard to bear. It slowly bit you out of being alive.It swallows your presence and make you feel as if not being strong in any situations.
Shyness will not kill you IF you kill it first.

Don't be TOO shy

Too shy and being real

Being shy is one thing, but being TOO shy is another. It sucks.

I was once so shy, it seems like a burden to carry around all the time. It's too hurting to bear.

So I looked at myself in the mirror and started thinking of doing something about this shyness in me.

All this while, I lived in isolation. Alone. No friends to talk to. In fact I was like an alien from other planet.

Whenever I was in a crowded area, I kept thinking that everyone were looking at me and wanted to eat me.I felt that everything I did were wrong. I felt awkward.I quickly left the crowd. And that's it for some years.

I began to read books on shyness. I attended classes on self-confidence. I went to several talks. I bought many CDs on positive thinking. In fact I did everything I could to get rid of my shyness.
But...nothing changed. I was despaired and frustrated. I sat down in silence.
I still won't give-up though. I knew I could do something to myself. Deep inside I had that feeling that I could do it.
Slowly I began to realize that when you want to achieve something you must tell yourself that you can do it. No books or seminars or talks or anything can change you. You yourself had to change. YOU had to change YOU.
I began to walk confidently and try not to think that I'm shy. I smiled at people when I met them. It looked silly but it really helped me. I felt more brave.
I then tried conversing with people. At first it's not easy but when I pushed myself all out..I can talk confidently on any subjects. I gained many friends from there.
I joined many social clubs and became a member of an MLM bussiness. From there I met so many kinds of people and able to handle anything which I could not have done years ago.
So..you can achieve anything if you truly belive in yourselves. Dont' be shy and just WALK TALL.

Eradicate that low-self esteem

Everyone  wants  to  be  somebody  great.  No  one  wants  to  be  someone  with  low  self-esteem  and  to  suffer  because  of  it.  Obviously  the  ones  who  possessed  much  low  self-esteem  in  his  favor  gets  not  much  space  in  life  and  find  himself  barricaded  in  his  own  weaknesses.
Do  you  want  to  be  trap  with  feelings  of  low  self-esteem  all  your  life  and  do  nothing  about  it?
Surely  you  wish  to  change  all  that  but  you  find  it  not  an  easy  task  to  follow.  But  first  thing  you  have  to  ask  yourself  is  how  to  start  getting  rid  of   it  out  of  your  life  forever. You  have  to  do  it  successfully  or  you  will have  to  live  with  it   whether  you  like  it  or  don't.
Why  must  you  have  that  low  self-esteem  in  the  first  thing?  You  have  to  ask  that  question  on  yourself  repeatedly  and  the  answer  lies  in  yourself.  You  are  actually  the  eradicator  and  have  to  eradicate  that  lowly  feeling  yourself.  You  kill  it  before  it  kill  you  as  the  saying  goes.No  one  can  help  except  yourself.  It  is  true if  you  think it  rationally.
Everyone  will  get  that  chances  in  his  or  her  life.  It's  either  you  lose  or  win  in  the  game depends  on  how  you  play  the  game.  Only  the  weak  will  succumb  to  his  or  her  own  weaknesses.  Don't  let  your  low  self-esteem  be  your  main  weakness.  It's  only  a  feeling  whenever  you  feel  you're  always  losing  before  even  trying  your  very  best.  You  have  to  do  the  best  in  order  to  be  the  best  in  everything  that  you  do.
If  you  do  things  with  feelings  of  not  getting  better  than  the  next  person,  then  you  will  be  what  you  think  it  to  be.  Because  your  mind  will  create  what  you think  you  are  then   the  low  self-esteem  will  assist  in  developing  more  low  kind  of  thinking.  Therefore  think  only  of  high  hopes  and  not  to  think  yourself  as  someone  who  will  be  the  stepping  stones  of  others. Be  strong  in  keeping  yourself  in  high-spirits  and  not  let  other  people  estimate  you  as  someone  with  low-spirit  and  getting  nowhere  in  life.
Show  your true  self-esteem   and  make  people  admire  you  for  your  achievements.  Do  not  let  disappoinment  chained  your  determination  to  succeed.  Break  that  chain  and  let  loose  yourself  amongst  the  best.
Eradicate  that  feelings  of  low  self-esteem  and  move  on  in  life  even  if  you  had  failed  hundreds  of  times.  This  life  had  no  space  for  someone  with  low  self-esteem.